Be in a relationship with yourself and make it your goal -Leony- Have you ever been into a situation like you're holding unto something then you fought hard for that something yet ended up frustrated or exhausted, just because you think you are a baggage to someone instead of being a reliever? Deep in us we wanted to be a part of someone or something -to those whom we considered special- We show them kindness, we give them time, care & concern, We wanted to see them happy we pay attention to their needs or desires, trying to comfort them in any way we can. It has even become our goal, relationship goal! Why are we doing this in the first place? Do we really know those people whom we devote our time to? Or it is "we", whom we really need to know more about! Know Yourself (more than others) Knowing ourselves - how we feel, act and treat people - has often been neglected We pay more attention to people than paying more a
When I am into emotional state.. "I" and "myself" always have a debate. When "I" realizes that something is shaky and should do something before its late, "myself" tries to contradict. "I" said, "stop hindering myself. I know what am doing and I always do stuff in practical way!" But "myself" just said, "no, you're not! Your practical ways can be bad and hurting at times.You disregard real emotion which myself is expert in dealing with!" "I replied, "are you sure that you couldn't make bad decision out of your crazy emotion? Both have good reasons and none of them will give-way. They are like wolves, ready to attack when one jeopardize the other. Its a battle between practicality over emotion or vice versa Career over personal relationship (mind over heart) Love over hurt Good intention over bad ways.. Can't they just go together and agree at one point?