Wednesday, January 26, 2011

The Way Of Love

     Love will not always go on easy waters. Waves will pour in and test the power of your love. Keep the love burning so that no matter how many problems you will have to put up, however turbulent they may be, your love will stay afloat.

     Most people have experienced the ups and downs in a relationship. Arguments and clashes happen. Some looses it and others have overcome it. Well, It can't be denied that those little differences between lovers has helped a lot in building a more healthy relationship. Arguments or "Love quarrel" as they call it, add spices to every relationship. This is one way of showing how they care and how they value with each other. 

     Do we really have to experience it? Do we need to undergo this irritating scene in love's journey? These questions keep on bugging me. Writing this article makes me remember one person, a very special one. He is someone who can twist your world upside down. A someone who never fails to give surprises, whose mind never stop in experimenting new ideas and events, even in love. I find this someone so candid-- the way he speak out everything and acted as if he dominates his own world. One time I asked myself, is it his way of showing Love? There is simply magic in this man. I can't even define him, and the worst is I lost my reasoning when it comes to him. Everytime I hate him, the more longings come within. How did this someone become so dear to me? my gosh I do not even know!!! Events have overtaken the day since I have received that message "I am always ready for a noble cause" from him. It was just like a lightning that struck me, but instead of killing me has invigorated my life.

     There is promise in him. I feel it. Everytime we talk I feel the love in him. I have concluded that everything he did and everything he said to me are reflections of what is inside of him. This is how he loves me. This is his way of love. This is how I am journeying with him. 

     In love's journey, always go to the mile together. Do not leave your beloved behind, or both of you would be lost. As long as you have each others hand, everything would be alright. With your hands together, you can set your destiny; your dreams, your family. Have faith in each other.



Thursday, January 20, 2011

Mysterious Force

     There are some questions which have been bugging my mind for quite sometime. About what makes two people, of different cultures, different backgrounds, different families, different outlooks click together? or "what power in the world can make two people stay together for the rest of their lives? 

In search for answers, I came across with an article saying " male and female with unlike scents attracts each other". so then, this is applicable to science. They may have found the reason why people get attracted to each other, but I am sure that science can never find the reason why two people stick it out for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health till death do them part. Their commitment and decision to stay with each other is truly puzzling. This mysterious force is what I call LOVE :)♥  

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

LOVE BEGINS WITH A DREAM

     Every person carries his heart a blueprint of the one he loves. We already have an ideal in us, one which is made by our thinking, our habits, our experiences, and our desires. Before meeting certain people we already have a pattern and idea of what we like and what we do not like.

     When we hear music for the first time, we either like or dislike it. We judge it by the music we already have heard in our own hearts. Calm minds like calm music: The heart has its own secret melody and one day, when the score is played, the heart answers: "This is it". So it is with love. A tiny architect works inside our human heart, drawing sketches of the ideal love from the people it sees, from the books it reads, from the movies/films it watches, from the internet it meets, from its hopes and daydreams, in the fond hope that the eye may one day see the ideal and the hand touch it.

     Life becomes satisfying the moment the dream is seen walking, and the person appears as the incarnation of all that one loved. It is satisfying that when we find the person we love will love us in return. A kind of love we longed for and is hidden and reserved inside our hearts for a long time. It is even more satisfying when that person will dream with us towards greater heights! beyond eternity, a limitless dream that both hearts understand.

     Love begins with a dream and hopefully, lovers will not stop dreaming. A dream that one day, in its own sweet time will be together becoming one in body, mind, heart and soul!. Love begins with a dream and it must not end just only a dream but a reality of that dream with one aspiration, one life, one heart and one love. :)

JOURNEYING WITH YOU

My heart tells me there's something wrong. It seems you're going through a journey with nothing but heartaches beside you. You don't have to say or utter anything for me to know and realize the anguish. I care too much not to notice...

Over the years, I have discovered that Love's journey is not easy. At first It gives us hope. It gives us a feeling of the so called "heaven". We feel that butterflies are flying inside our stomach. Maybe sounds funny and corny, but we don't mind all those corny things they said. What matters to us is the sweet feelings of being in love. We are in a high spirit of Love. But, have we forgot that we are on a journey? Each of us from time to time experiences crises from different life changing events and transitions, all unpredictable moments arriving and intruding into our well groomed relationship, we didn't ask for this interference and we wonder why it has arrived bringing with it havoc and confusion.

Love's journey is not easy, in fact, it often is hard. No matter what the source, each pain has a common bond, a threshold, a holy summons inviting us to cross a threshold involving both a leaving behind and a stepping forward.

Struggling day to day with the pain is an agonizing task. Don't be too hard on yourself. I am near if you need a lift of heart, a guiding hand, and someone who will be there with you to welcome the light of a new day. Just go on with your journey, because you are not alone. If the pain is too much for you, then.... GIVE ME YOUR WOUNDED HEART.