Sunday, May 27, 2012

Show your Best Smile in the Rain

Loving the right person at the wrong time...
or having the wrong person when the time is right...





...means LETTING GO!
(even if you still want to hold on)








You're in love with someone, only to find out that you can never be together 'till the end. 
You spent your lifetime loving someone, missing him/her so badly,  putting the person at the pedestal and yet, that person walks out of your life easily. Then, in order to console yourself, you gonna say: "Everything has a reason."

You can do nothing but cry to release the pain inside... the pain of losing. 


With bloody heart, you still manage to smile..
a goodbye smile!
Staring at the person you love with smiling lips,
a crying heart, a bleeding soul reflects in your eyes!

You love the person...
yes, you love the person!
You wanted to stay forever but it can't be.

 You need to be okay... you must be okay!
and let the world see that everything is fine!
That all is well (as you usually post on your facebook status)
wear a smile... even a painful one. 
After all, wearing a smile is easy than explaining why you are sad. So give your best smile even if behind it is an aching soul.
A smile is easy to form just to hide the pain. You start playing the art of "pretending", pretend that all is sunny day even if it rains.

You can do it, yes you can...
Try to hide the dark clouds through your smile;
and when the rain of tears start to fall from your eyes,
turn your head, back away and run... run as fast as you could,
in a corner of no place, and there you shout out loud with no voice,
praying for the rain to wash away the pain in your soul.

You let the person go...
but the memories remains with you.
It may tear your heart apart,
but it strengthen your soul and  teach you how and where to start!

Walk on, yes walk on...
start to pick up the broken pieces of you as you journey on!
congratulate yourself for love was  with you, and is always in you.
It is better to love, then lost that love than never to love at all!

Start to understand that most relationships tend to fail not because of the absence of love, but because love is always present. It's just that one was being loved too much, and the other was being loved too little. Most often, we fall in love with the person we think we love, but to only discover that for them we are just for past times. While the one who truly loves us remains either our friend or a stranger.

Life is ironic ...
Ironic in the sense that in spite of the fact that love strives in hurting, you  still risk for Love. 
You console yourself by sticking the belief that if you don't get hurt, then you won't learn how to love. You even find beauty in it.  the  beauty of loving despite of pain. You console yourself by telling: "Love doesn't hurt all the time"; though the hurting is there to test you, to help you grow.



Love is a painful risk. 


To love means that risk must be taken, 
no matter how scary or painful, 
for only then  will you experience
 the fullness of humanity 
of what we call LOVE. 

If you're not ready to cry, if you're not ready to take the risk , and if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love. It takes an individual to have the courage.       

Start to appreciate the rain...
from the heavy clouds of pain.
Someday, you gonna be okay, yes you gonna be okay;
and let that SOMEDAY  BE TODAY!
                       


written by: Leony  Moonrose


JOURNEYING WITH YOU

My heart tells me there's something wrong. It seems you're going through a journey with nothing but heartaches beside you. You don't have to say or utter anything for me to know and realize the anguish. I care too much not to notice...

Over the years, I have discovered that Love's journey is not easy. At first It gives us hope. It gives us a feeling of the so called "heaven". We feel that butterflies are flying inside our stomach. Maybe sounds funny and corny, but we don't mind all those corny things they said. What matters to us is the sweet feelings of being in love. We are in a high spirit of Love. But, have we forgot that we are on a journey? Each of us from time to time experiences crises from different life changing events and transitions, all unpredictable moments arriving and intruding into our well groomed relationship, we didn't ask for this interference and we wonder why it has arrived bringing with it havoc and confusion.

Love's journey is not easy, in fact, it often is hard. No matter what the source, each pain has a common bond, a threshold, a holy summons inviting us to cross a threshold involving both a leaving behind and a stepping forward.

Struggling day to day with the pain is an agonizing task. Don't be too hard on yourself. I am near if you need a lift of heart, a guiding hand, and someone who will be there with you to welcome the light of a new day. Just go on with your journey, because you are not alone. If the pain is too much for you, then.... GIVE ME YOUR WOUNDED HEART.